Mary Wilder Ancestry  
From: http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~walkersj/Wilder.htm

Descendants of Nicholas Wilder
Generation No. 1

  1. NICHOLAS1 WILDER was born Abt. 1464 of Shiplake, Berkshire, England.

Child of NICHOLAS WILDER
  2. i. JOHN2 WILDER, b. Abt. 1500, Sulham, Berkshire, England.
 

Generation No. 2

  2. JOHN2 WILDER (NICHOLAS1) was born Abt. 1500 in Sulham, Berkshire, England.  He married AGNES1 Bef. 1537 in of Sulham, Berkshire, England.

Children of JOHN WILDER and AGNES are:
 i. AGNES3 WILDER, b. Abt. 1537, of Sulham, Berkshire, England; d. 1580.
  3. ii. JOHN WILDER, b. Abt. 1542, of Sulham, Berks., & Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. 1588, Oxfordshire, England.
 

Generation No. 3

  3. JOHN3 WILDER (JOHN2, NICHOLAS1) was born Abt. 1542 in of Sulham, Berkshire, & Shiplake, Oxford, England, and died 1588 in Oxfordshire, England.  He married ALICE KEATS 1570 in Shiplake, Oxon, England, daughter of THOMAS KEATS about 1530 of Sulham House, England).

Children of JOHN WILDER and ALICE KEATS are:
 i. JOHN4 WILDER, b. Abt. 1572, Shiplake, Oxfordshire, England.
 ii. ELEANOR WILDER, b. Abt. 1574, Shiplake, Oxford, England.
 iii. NICHOLAS WILDER, b. Abt. 1575, Shiplake, Oxfordshire, England.
 iv. JOHN WILDER, b. Abt. 1577, Shiplake, Oxfordshire, England.
 v. WILLIAM WILDER, b. Abt. 1578, Shiplake, Oxfordshire, England.
  4. vi. THOMAS WILDER, b. 1579, of Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. 1634, Shiplake, Oxford, England.
 vii. ALICE WILDER, b. Abt. 1581, Shiplake, Oxfordshire, England.
 

Generation No. 4

  4.  THOMAS4 WILDER (JOHN3, JOHN2, NICHOLAS1)2,3 was born 1579 of Shiplake, Oxford, England4, and died 1634 in Shiplake, Oxford, England5.  He married MARTHA HIGGS5,6 January 1618/19 in England7, daughter of (?)GRIFFEN HIGGS and SARAH PAINE(?) Martha came on the Confidence to America.  Martha had several children who also came to America before she and Elizabeth, Mary and Edward in 1638.  Settled at Hingham.  (The Underwood Families of America)  She was heiress to the Shiplake property

Children of THOMAS WILDER and MARTHA HIGGS are:
 i. EDWARD5 WILDER7
 ii. ELIZABETH WILDER7
 iii. ALICE WILDER, b. Abt. 1614, Shiplake, Shiplake, Oxford, England; m. HENRY WARNER, Oxfordshire, England.
 iv. JOHN WILDER, b. 1616, Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. 1688, remained in England - had children; m. HANNAH.
 v. THOMAS WILDER, b. 1618, Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. October 23, 1667, Will Probated, Lancaster, Worcester, Massachusetts; m. ANNA EAMES, April 1640, Charlestown, Massachusetts
 vi. EDWARD WILDER8,9, b. Bet. 1619 - 1623, Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. October 18, 1690, Of Plymouth, Massachusetts; m. ELIZABETH EAMES, April 01, 1651, Plymouth, Massachusetts.
 vii. ELIZABETH WILDER10,11, b. 1621, Shiplake, Oxford, England; d. Aft. 1676; m. THOMAS ENSIGN11, January 16, 1638/39, Hingham, Plymouth Co., Massachusetts. 1663:  Her will names sister Mary's daughter Sarah Underwood, not yet fifteen years old, as her niece.  (The Underwood Families of America)
  viii. MARY WILDER12,13, b. 1623, Shiplake, Oxford, England14,15; d. December 13, 1658, Watertown, Middlesex Co., Massachusetts15,16; m. JOSEPH UNDERWOOD17, 1644, Hingham, Plymouth Co., Massachusetts18,19.
This is proven by the 1653 will of Mary's sister Mrs Elizabeth Ensign which names Mary's daughter Sarah Underwood, not yet fifteen years old, as her niece. Mary had come with her mother on the Confidence in 1638 to America. Martha Wilder was the widow of Thomas Wilder who died 1634 at Shiplake, Oxford England. Martha had several children who also came to America before their mother and sister. One child, John Wilder, remained in England and had progeny. Martha has been said to have been the daughter of Griffin Higgs and his wife Sarah Payne, but the Higgs genealogy does not bear this out. There were marital alliances between Wilders and Higgs in England, but it looks doubtful that Martha was one of the Higgs daughters who married a Wilder. She is also said to have been an heiress of the Shiplake property.
1666, dismissed from church in Dorchester to the church in Watertown20
Burial: December 16, 1658, Watertown, Middlesex Co., Massachusetts
 ix. ISAAC WILDER, b. Abt. 1625, Shiplake, Shiplake, Co. Oxford, England
 x. MATTHEW WILDER, b. Abt. 1627, Shiplake, Shiplake, Oxford, England
 xi. ABRAHAM WILDER, b. Abt. 1629, Shiplake, Shiplake, Oxford, England